During my senior year at Rutgers (1968) Jesse Abramson, the esteemed track and field sports writer in New York City, wrote an article on me about my efforts to win the Met Conference title for Rutgers, as I ran trials and finals in the 440, 220, second leg on the 4x110 relay and anchor on the 4x440 relay. His lead was "Do or die for Rutgers". But, little did Jesse know I almost did die a miserable death by almost failing out of college my freshman year.
Rutgers was still a small state University, relative to other state Universities, that was all male with an enrollment of approximately 4,000 undergraduates in 1964. Our freshman class fit in the old basketball arena, "The Barn" on George Street.
Part of Freshman Orientation was meeting Dean Howard Crosby in "The Barn". All of our class could fit into the bandbox gym as Dean Crosby gave his famous introduction to the class. "Look to the left of you and look to the right of you. One of you won't be here next semester".
Well, he was almost right, but the odds were even worse. My floor at Tinsley Hall housed 32 students that seemed to have never been allowed out of their homes during their high school years. Every night our House Resident, football assistant coach, Bob Naso, would walk up and down the halls, trying to quiet the floor down. By second semester our floor only had 17 students left.
I was the first in my family to go to college and I was scared to death. During the first few weeks of school, I was overwhelmed by what I didn't know and what others did know. My next door classmate, Larry Miller, showed us a list of 32 books he read over the summer. I quickly went to my room and hid my Superman and Donald Duck comic books. My only reading for the summer was the James Baldwin book, "The Fire Next Time". I think "Catcher on the Rye" might also have been on the list, but I was busy working at Howard Johnson's Restaurant and didn't read it.
By October I was hunkered down going to my room after dinner and sleeping. I was too scared to study, basically because I had never really studied much before. I was exposed to the Byzantium Empire, Calculus, Economics, English 101, none of which I knew much about. I received 4 warning notices of failing classes, with only German Literature giving me a passing grade.
One night I decided to get up (it was extra noisy), took some books with me and went to the library. There I met John Gaston down in the basement "stacks". John also lived on my floor. He saved my college career, as he pointed out how he came down to the "stacks" every day to do his studying. He was an Engineering student. I was amazed that someone would study every day, but I followed suit, set up residence in the "stacks" and was able to pass all my classes.
John came out of Belvidere, NJ where his dad and mom ran a small gas station. There wasn't much money, for certain, as they lived in a very small, rundown home on site. John loved basketball, but his size (5-9) was against him and along with being a serious student, he decided to not try out for the Rutgers basketball team. Instead, he studied and boy, did he study. After graduating, John became the Assistant Commissioner of Waste Management for the State of New Jersey. Sadly, he died of cancer in 2003.
Without John's support and kind help in teaching me how to study, I would never have completed college or run so well competitively or have had a successful coaching career.